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Make clean agreements at the end of each meeting and capture them easily.
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Youâve made it through most of the meeting - and youâve had some truly powerful conversations.Â
But how many times have you felt really clear and even excited about something in a meeting - only for that feeling to almost entirely ebb away by the time youâre back at your desk and into deep work again?
Question: how can you translate whatâs been discussed in this meeting into tangible outcomes that everyone is completely clear on back at their desk - without endless note-taking?Â
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Letâs tackle getting clarity first.
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You know that thing where someone senior says⌠we should really do X.
Everyone else is all, âoh yes, absolutelyâ but no one quite knows:
- Is this a decision?
- Do we mean do this now?
- Are you going to do it?
- Or are you politely telling us WE need to do it?!
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So first, this is normal. Early group research(1) shows people often use a proposing style in meetings to float ideas and see if they fly. It feels more collaborative and less authoritarian.Â
Thatâs great. But each time, this messy, non-threatening language needs cleaning up.Â
There is nothing less collaborative than feeling completely unclear about whatâs been agreed. So by all means propose. And then clean up.
(1)Â Bales, R. F., & Strodtbeck, F. L. (1951). Phases in group problem-solving. The Journal of Abnormal and Social Psychology, 46(4), 485â495.
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Clean up
The first step is to make clean, clear agreements that we plan to keep.
You can do this as you go along and I like to separate out decisions from actions.
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First decisions.
âHow do you see us making that happen?
âIs that a decision?âÂ
âHow should I capture that?â
âWho will own this?â
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Then actions.
âWhatâs the first action on that?â
âWhat needs to happen by when?â
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And also items to park for later:
âShall we list that as something we want to come back to another time?â
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And/or you can do it all at the end:
âWhat decisions have we made today?â
âWhat will happen next?â
âWhat do we want to come back to next time?â
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And now capture
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Nowâs the moment to introduce the âcapture canvasâ.Â
Here is my super simple version. |