Love Collaborating, Hate Meetings?
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Great to work with you in this session - here's the toolkit you might find helpful as you shift to new ways of meeting and collaborating.
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Hello from Carrie! Great to meet you at "Love Collaborating, Hate Meetings?". Thanks for your many great reflections and questions. If you found it useful, I'd be so grateful if you'd review this session.Â
In the meantime, here are the slides - and if you scroll down, I've brought together tools and guides from my premium library to help answer the questions that came up in the session.
View the slidesYour Copilot prompt guide - save time, get better results
18 ready-to-use AI prompts for Microsoft Copilot, built directly from the HAVI "Love Collaborating, Hate Meetings" workshop. Cut, paste and personalise each prompt to put the workshop ideas into practice immediately — no prompt-writing skills required.
- Structured prompts for every technique — Smart6 invites, async video scripts, brainwriting sessions, Strong Space Statements, Capture Canvas notes and more
- Clear gaps to fill in — every prompt has
[BRACKETS]showing exactly where to add your own context, so Copilot gives you a precise, relevant answer - Organised by workshop theme — 5 sections mirror the session flow, so it's easy to find the right prompt when you need it
- Transcript-powered prompts — paste a real meeting transcript and get analysis of dynamics, missed moments, and a ready-to-send follow-up
- Coaching and reflection tools — prompts to design your weekly experiment, prep for trio sessions, and audit your calendar
Deep dive guides
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Make space for the work that matters
What's the minimum you need to do to take up your colleagues' time in meetings?
📝 How to redesign any meeting so it fits in 30 minutes
A practical method for stripping a meeting back without losing the outcomes you actually need.
📝 How to shift an update meeting to async and give everyone deep work time back
Step-by-step guidance on moving your most common meeting type out of the calendar entirely.Â
📝 Should you offer a meeting free day?
Examining whether protecting a full day from meetings is the right call, and how to make it work if so.
📝 Consult wide, meet small (here's how to do it)
The single most underused lever for reducing meeting load - invite (a LOT) fewer people.
Use structure to unlock powerful contribution
 📝 Introduction to scaffolding — 13 techniques I use all the time
The master reference: a library of structures for making any meeting more interactive and participatory.Â
📝 Agreement Levels — a fast, nuanced way to make better group decisions
A simple tool that replaces the awkward 'is everyone OK with this?' with something that actually reveals where people are.Â
📝 Stop presenting slides in meetings — instead, do this...
Why slide-led meetings suppress contribution — and a better format that gets people thinking from the moment they arrive.
📝 Should you be using the Jeff Bezos silent reading technique?
The Amazon method for levelling the playing field and drawing out richer input from quieter voices.Â
📝 A 90-second tool for adding helpful structure to a meeting
When you haven't time to prepare a full agenda, this buys you the structure you need in under two minutes.
How to design repeating meeting types so they run consistently well without reinventing the wheel each time.Â
📝 A simple format for capturing the value of every meeting
Closing a meeting well — so the contributions and decisions made in it don't immediately evaporate.
Surface tension early, handle it cleanly
📝 How I turn bad conflict into good conflict
The core distinction between conflict that blocks progress and conflict that generates it, and how to move between the two.Â
📝 How to excavate what people in your team really think (before it sinks your project)
Practical techniques for drawing out the real concerns people are holding back, before they derail the project.
📝 My go-to script for de-risking a tough conversation
A structured approach to opening a difficult conversation without triggering defensiveness or derailing the meeting.
Why conflict at work is inevitable, and why repair (not avoidance) is the skill we need to learn.Â
📝 Psychologically strong teams and how to develop one (Part 1)
The foundations of a team that can handle disagreement and how to build them.Â
📝 Steelman technique: how to disagree and decide better in meetings
How arguing against your own position leads to better decisions, healthier debate, and fewer meeting stalemates.